Dealing with losing a loved one is always difficult, and when you find yourself embroiled in an Orange County trust litigation, this adds another wrinkle to the problem. Fortunately, working with premier trust litigation attorneys in Orange County can reduce stress and help manage your emotions so you can focus on what matters most during this trying time.
When beneficiaries have problems with their inheritance, feelings of rejection and anger can surface because they often perceive their inheritance as a measurement of how much their parents loved them, which is another can of worms. Add deep-rooted rivalries and complex family dynamics, and you have a perfect storm.
At Gokal Law Group, we have helped clients navigate probate court and achieve their desired outcomes for years to minimize stress and better manage the emotional toll this process can take. Here’s how to manage emotions during California trust litigation:
How Can I Manage My Emotions During a Trust Litigation?
During litigation, emotions are at high tide. Luckily, working with premier trust litigation attorneys in Orange County will help you leverage your emotional intelligence (EQ), avoid fanning the flames, and gain a healthy perspective. Learn more:
EQ (Emotional Quotient) vs. IQ (Intellectual Quotient)
When you want to diffuse emotions in an Orange County trust litigation case, remember to use EQ instead of IQ. In other words, you need more emotional intelligence. Learning to leverage EQ can help separate your emotions from the issue and regulate your feelings.
It is impossible to understate the importance of managing your emotions because California trust litigation cases are so personal.
“Remember – emotions, whether rational or not, are real to the people feeling them. EQ isn’t about invalidating your emotions. It’s about regulating and managing them because I see these cases take a toll all the time when clients allow themselves to become immersed in the back and forth between the competing parties,” explained Ronald V. Larson, a partner and practicing attorney at Gokal Law Group with nearly 30 years of complex litigation experience.
Don’t Make The Situation Worse
It is important to remember to avoid fanning the flames when embroiled in a heated Orange County trust litigation case.
We understand how easy it is to go back and forth when you and someone can’t see eye to eye. But avoid arguing at all costs because it will help you reduce costs. Getting hung up on getting even takes up significantly more time and resources.
“It is no secret that drama is not just at home on the stage – there’s plenty in the courtroom, too. Don’t let your emotions cloud your judgment, and remember that you want to create a resolution, not resentment. Always prioritize your best interests. Anything else will only add to your stress and legal bills,” added Ronald.
Another pitfall to avoid is turning to social media to vent because you think you will find people who care about your situation and will sympathize with your circumstances. But this does more harm than good in court. These statements can come back to bite you.
Gain Perspective
One great way to manage your emotions during Orange County trust litigation is to adjust your perspective. When your emotions dictate your actions, you don’t always realize the underlying motivations.
For example, maybe you’re doing something simply to get back at the other party but don’t recognize it because your emotions are hurting your focus. Even when your feelings are valid, never turn the courtroom into a vehicle for vindication.
“Think about it this way – if the way you are seeing things is like a camera lens, emotions can keep changing the aperture until you can’t get a clear picture of what’s happening. Perspective is like an anchor for your clarity. It will help you suspend the emotions you may be feeling so you can focus on reaching a resolution or succeeding in court,” added Ronald.
For perspective, we advise identifying someone who has no bias in the situation, like a therapist. This helps you release stress and tension, and they can also help you gain a healthier perspective.
Trust Litigation Lawyers in Orange County
People overuse the phrase emotional rollercoaster, but when it comes to Orange County trust litigation, the ups and downs will have you feeling like you’re at Disneyland. Fortunately, with premier trust litigation attorneys, this rollercoaster becomes a short ride, with minimal stress, which will help you to focus on managing your emotions.
At Gokal Law Group, our firm boasts unmatched expertise and experience in California trust litigation. We’ll manage your case and help you manage your emotions. Call us at (949) 753-9100 or contact us to request a case evaluation.